"Has your partner ever destroyed any of your belongings?"
"Does your partner make you feel as though there is something wrong with you?"
"Does your partner make you feel as though you are walking on eggshells?"
"Does your partner control all your money?"
"Does he tell you that he is only acting this way or hurting you because he loves you so much?"
"Does your partner ever threaten to tell people that you are the problem to cut off your support to family, friends and the LGBT community?"
"Does your partner ever tell you that you aren’t a real lesbian or that you aren’t really bi if you have previously been in heterosexual relationships?"
"Has your partner ever threatened to hurt himself if you were to leave?"
"Does your partner ever make you feel ashamed of your sexuality or gender identity?"
"Does he put pressure on you to have sex and make you feel like you owe it to him?"
"Has your partner ever threatened you or your children?"
"Have you stopped seeing your friends and doing things you want to do because he gets jealous?"
"Does your boyfriend ever get angry and jealous and say you are flirting with other boys?"
"Has your partner ever made it hard for you to see your family or friends?"
"Does your partner ever tell you no-one will help you because they don’t take abuse in gay or trans relationships seriously?"
"Does your partner ever tell you that they only act this way because they love you and/or buy you lots of gifts when they say sorry?"
"Does your partner ever tell you that no-one else will ever find you attractive or love you?"
"If you’ve ever shared nudes with him, does he ever threaten to show your family and friends if you don’t do what he says?"
"Has your partner ever gone on and on at you to get you to have sex with him?"
"Does your partner give you the silent treatment when you don’t do what he wants?"
"Has your partner ever tried to stop you getting a job or going to college?"
"Does your partner want to know where you are and what you are doing all of the time?"
"Does your partner ever make you feel guilty to get you to do things?"
"Does your partner ever threaten to tell your children about your sexuality without your permission?"
"Does your boyfriend tell you what to wear, or tell you that you look fat and ugly?"
"Does your partner call you names and make you feel bad about yourself?"
"Does your partner ever make you doubt yourself, or feel like you are imagining things?"
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